Threesome means MFM style

Based on the man filming with his right hand, it’s clear the girl used her right hand to hold his dick. However, her hairy hand is unusual, suggesting the second man was actually performing oral sex on her. The question remains: whose wife is the girl? While I’d prefer a scenario where I fuck my wife while my friend sucks her, I’d rather not hold another man’s dick. Therefore, in this case, I’d prefer my friend to fuck my wife, allowing me to pleasure her mouth. This scenario is still unpleasant, though. What should I do? Decide now!