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I have a funny hate relationship with pain, and have always had "life is pain" and "you have to be hard to survive" pounded into my head, and I think in a broader sense, that plays into my feelings of priding myself on being tough and demanding the same from my partner. I have found that, in the past, when I was in relationships with submissive people who struck me as soft or weak-willed the game just grew boring very quickly. I wanted someone who could take some damage without expressing it too much. Looking back, we were probably just on different wavelengths and had different needs and such, but at the time I viewed these people as unworthy. Now, having read what CeCe said in the thread above about people with superiority complexes covering for their own inferiority has REALLY got me thinking! Hahah. There was a time, too, when I was obsessed with extremity for its own sake, and I needed someone who was willing to go to extremes with me. And anyone who wasn't down for it was a big old pussy. I had to do some seedy things in order to get those so-ed needs fulfilled. That was a dark time. Turns out those people who refused me weren't total pussies, they were just sane! LOL And not willing to do whatever it took to get a piece of tail. ;) Nowadays, although I still that "oh, I how tough you are, toughness is very attractive" thing with me, I am glad to have sacrificed my superiority complex (ahem, somewhat anyway) and to have sacrificed the extremity (I probably always crave it, though) in order to find this deeper, more true connection with someone I can trust %. The family bond ties tightly, and I know our views of each other have changed for the better since becoming a family changed our lives. Ha, you want to talk about rambling wow! Just look at this post. Bonita Springs looking for Bonita Springs cock
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